do you really care?…part one

July 21st, 2011

Recently, while working on my WIP, I was frustrated that there was something missing with my main character. I had the physical description down, her past worked up, some of the plotting done, but something just didn’t quite feel right.

As I do so frequently while mulling problems over, I walk away and clean or vacuum something. Hey, don’t laugh. Agatha Christie admitted to doing her best plotting while doing dishes!

Grabbing clothes out of the dryer, I pitched them on the sofa and sat down to tackle my least favorite chore. The television was on and the Wimbledon was in full swing with the final match was coming up. Me being a sports fan has been limited to freezing winters and scorching summers watching my sons play football and baseball and I have never, ever watched a tennis match. But, as I went to change the channel, I caught a remark that the Williams sisters were playing each other for the Championship.

Wow! Two sisters playing each other for such a coveted title?

The sportscaster mentioned that the older sister had lost to the younger sister at a previous Wimbledon tournament and they were playing each other again.
Who were they? Why were they playing each other? How did their family feel about this? How did they feel about it? What would happen if the same sister won again? Or lost?

As I listened to the sisters’ story, I became spellbound with something that previously held no interest to me before. Through the commentator, I was able to glimpse into their lives, into their hopes and dreams, into their victories and defeats
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Now I cared. I cared who won and who lost. Cared how their mom must have felt watching her daughters play and not be able to root for either one. I felt deeply for the sister that won and the sister that lost. For the first time, I deliberately watched the sports channel and an entire tennis match.

…to be continued

Dreams

July 18th, 2011

‘The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.’
~Eleonore Roosevelt

That particular quote runs along the edges of a picture frame which I have framed the words “Avery Michaels, Published Author”.

It is my dream to be published. And one day I will be.

No matter what your dream is, hold on to it tightly. On some days when it seems to be as far away as the heavens, remember that ‘stars burn brighter in the darkest nights’.

It’s yours. Don’t let anyone take it away from you.

whats in YOUR wallet?

July 15th, 2011

I love those commercials for Capital One . I enjoy them because they are so funny. I still chuckle at the trebuchet tossing beads at the speed of sound during a Mardi Gras parade. Ouch!

I love to laugh.

A few weeks ago, my husband and I were talking about what a downer it was to be around people who didn’t know how to relax and have a good time. Given a choice, we’d much rather avoid being with those who 1) are always unhappy, or 2) looks at everything with a critical eye, or 3) judges everything on comparisons.

No one is perfect. Nothing is perfect. We all have our demons we battle on a daily basis. But the universe spins a positive aspect to everything and everyone. Some you have to look a little harder to find…LOL…but it’s there.

We’ve gone on several vacations lately which turned out to be fabulously a lot of fun. Mostly because of whom we were with. People who know how to joke and tease and laugh and are a lot of fun.

Everyone has ‘favorites’ they prefer. Food, drink, movies, books, stores, styles of fashion and design. But if we come to something new and/or not to our liking, how about concentrating on what it does have to offer.

Think about what you carry around with you in your wallet. Everything you need or think you need to get through the day.

But how about the things you need to get through life? A sense of humor. A positive outlook. A good attitude. A quest for new things to experience.

Carry these with you on a daily basis.

Life is short. Life is for living. Laugh, Live, Love!

What’s in your wallet?

Castles in the Clouds

July 8th, 2011

“There are no rules of architecture for a castle in the clouds.”

~Gilbert K. Chesterton

I love that phrase.

I get images of turrets and towers, strong hunky knights and feisty beautiful heroines. I see possibilities of dreams and visions, of romance and happiness and hope.

Could it be because I am romantic at heart or because I have a writer’s soul?

I write because I love words. I love they way they sound. I love the way they look. I love the way they can make something come alive and make it real.

Sometimes I can hear or read a phrase, sometimes only a word, or even just a name on the credits after a movie and a full blown visual takes shape in my mind.

Music also inspires me in so many ways. And if it happens to be a phrase or a word in a song that speaks to me – all the better – I am off and running.

Now before you clap your hands in glee and think how wonderful I am, I believe it is true for most writers. The avenue may be different, but the results are the same.

I know a writer who concocted a whole story after noticing a hitchhiker on the side of the road. Poor innocent man never realized she turned him into a serial killer that terrorized a small town suffering a deep winter freeze. I’m sure, in truth, he was just a nice guy needing a ride somewhere.

A published author friend of mine took her good friend’s name (we won’t mention who, but think yours truly here) and wrote a whole story around it. Great book, by the way and not just because of the heroine’s name, LOL.


Another published author friend of mine took the idea of a girl, a hit man, and a time machine and turned it first into weekly serial and then into a novel. Again, wonderful reading even if the heroine is not named after she-who-won’t-be-named, LOL!


These authors have gone forward and written many more books from cowboys to gladiators which all started with only a germ of an idea.

Many a novel, many a screenplay, many a song was birthed by such an inspiration, growing into a full blown form of entertainment.

Pay attention today to those ideas that pop into your head. Write them down. Who knows where they lead to that will end up with your name in print.

Have a great weekend!

Lessons from Lady Gaga

July 1st, 2011

If you are into music at all, if you watch the news, tune in to any music awards show, or sing along to the radio, then chances are you’ve heard of Lady Gaga.

Born Stefani Joanne Angelina Germanotta in Yonkers, NY, she debuted in 2008, eventually selling more than 15 million copies of her two albums and almost 51 million singles worldwide. Topping the charts with songs like Paparazzi, Poker Face, and Just Dance with her newest hit Born this Way being the fastest selling single in iTunes history, with a million copies moving in just five days.

She is provocative, she is talented, and she is outrageous.

What impresses me the most about, though, is that she knows what she wants, is very determined and, above all, believes in herself.

I recently read an interview with her and she was asked ‘What is your definition of Fame?’ She answered ‘you don’t need to be a celebrity or have money or have the paparazzi following you to be famous.’

She went on to say (and I am paraphrasing it) that she and her friends just simply declared fame on their own. It was their confidence and their conviction and their abilities (with some vanity thrown in) and have all of that exist in every fiber of their being that makes it work so well.

Imagine that.

They just declared it and then believed it.

If we could only see ourselves where we want to be in life – as a person, as writer, or whatever you choose to do – and truly BELIEVE it in every fiber of OUR being and go for it, we could surpass our wildest dreams.

It did for Lady Gaga.

So I challenge you know to go forth and declare your fame!

Avery

muses…

June 22nd, 2011

“An artist is not paid for his labor but for his vision.”

~James Whistler

Everyone has a muse. Unfortunately, mine have been scarce lately but they actually showed up today. Let me introduce you to mine.

I have two muses:

Muse #1 takes the word ‘anal’ to a new level. A day with her is like a day with Martha Stewart. She refuses to show up unless working conditions are in perfect order. Dust on the furniture? Floors need cleaning? Desk not in perfect order? With a look of disdain, she tosses her recently highlighted blonde hair, crosses her exfoliated and tanned arms and demands to know how she is expected to work when exposed to such chaos? Examining her manicured nails, she pouts until the housework is completed. Then she turns a critical eye to the WIP. Research done? Character profiles finished? Plot points worked up? She taps her designer clad foot, impatience marring her perfectly made up face. It is clear she has just arrived from her favorite spa and is in a no nonsense mood. She demands candles and music ala Norah Jones, Leeann Womack, or some other soft, sexy ballads. When she is satisfied, she goes to work.

Muse #2 thinks Jimmy Choo is an item on a Chinese buffet. Nothing but jeans and boots for her. Like my other muse, she shows up when she wants but could care less about anything except what’s on her mind. She strolls in, her long legs pacing the floor, black hair swirling around her shoulders, words coming out fast and furious. Doesn’t matter where I am or what I am doing – working, sleeping, trying to please Muse #1. If I tell her now is not the best time, she just cocks her head and smiles then slowly fades away. Her music runs to a more upbeat, bolder type like Shania Twain, Faith Hill, Celine Dion, Kelly Clarkson, even Taylor Swift, Kenny Chesney and Eli Young Band. She and I had the best time one night sharing a bottle of wine and writing a sex scene that will probably never see the light of day.

It is very interesting when they both show up at the same time. As they eye each other warily, I do as any good writer with two muses would. I grab a book and go read somewhere.

Tell me about your muses…

inspiration

March 17th, 2011

“May the saddest day of your future be no worse than the happiest day of your past.”

~Irish Blessing

Normally, as happens to all writers, the most common question asked is where I do get ideas for my stories.

I get them same place all the other writers do.

At the store.

My favorite place is downtown about a block off Main Street. Quaint little place on the right called The Shiny New Idea Shoppe. (I hear the spring collection will be in next week).

But the question today was ‘Where do you get your inspiration?’

Unfortunately, that’s a little more difficult. Everyone finds inspiration in different places in different ways. So I can only speak for myself.

Here is what I find that works for me.

1. Quotes – I seriously adore quotes. On any given day, I can usually find a quote that helps me get through the situation at hand. There are millions of tiny nuggets of wisdom out there that are so very profound and some that just plain tickle my funny bone. I mean, really, how can one not laugh at Maxine.

2. Music – From Country to New Age to Pop to Yanni, I love it all. Find me the right song and I am on a natural high. Not necessarily a pretty sight with me dancing and singing along, though. I have certain types of music for writing that is different from every other activity.

3. Books – Have you read a good book lately? Of course you have. And, after reading that awesome book, didn’t you hold it close to your chest, Texas size stars in your eyes, and promise the universe you’re going to write one also? If the book was a bad one, you threw it against the wall and yelled about how much better you could’ve written it!

Good or bad, you were inspired! And writers need to read more than the general public. Not only to keep up with the industry, but to motivate us to write one ‘as good as’ or ‘better than’ the ones we read. Every writer has that one book they’ve read that provided the spark to stop saying, ‘One day..’ and start booting up their computer.

4. Movies – Who doesn’t love movies? From comedies to horror, chick flicks to drama, there is something for everyone. Personally (and sadly), I find inspiration during the credits. I love watching the different names that scroll across the screen. Cool names just light my fire for a good story.

5. People – This is a hard one. Because there are so many people that rank high on my awesome meter.

I have one writer friend who is so involved with things it’s virtually impossible to keep up with all she does. Twitter, facebook, multiple blogs, coordinating contests. And she writes tons of books also while holding down a full time job.

Another writer friend plugs along, not as involved with things like those mentioned, but concentrates on her writing and produces book after book (after book…etc). She’s always there with a helping hand and can be a mean devil’s advocate which makes me think.

Another friend is a fireball and lives life to the absolute max going a bazillion miles an hour.

Still another one helps me the most with ideas and plotting problems I have which gets me back on track. And she keeps me honest.

There is a new kid (writer) on the block that is so together and so excited about writing, that she helps renew that same spirit in all of us.

Even reading success stories about people I don’t personally know, writers on not, can get me excited about sitting at my keyboard. I love successes. Reminds me I can be one also.

So what/who inspires you and how?

Happy St. Patrick’s Day!

May the sun shine, all day long,
everything go right, and nothing wrong.
May those you love bring love back to you,
and may all the wishes you wish come true!~Irish Blessing

a new addiction

March 3rd, 2011

I am not much on playing games. I just don’t have the time. Oh, sure, I love having people over to cook out, visit, listen to music and play trivia pursuit and various board or card games etc. And, on the occasion, like to play PS3 against GW and whip the snot out of him. NOT! It’s very rare I beat him at anything, but I still talk smack that I will. One day I may surprise both of us.

But there is a game called Words with Friends that I love to play! It’s an app most smart phones have available and it is an online Scrabble game that is totally addicting. You can play against friends, enemies, children, spouses, bosses, employees…you get the drift…and you can even create a game with someone that the powers that be that run the game will link you up with. Sort of like a faceless, meaningless, online opponent that can’t get mad if you win or lose.

So picture this. GW and I sitting side by side in our chair watching TV. He on the iPad, me on the iPhone. Playing against each other. Trying to hide the game screen so there is no cheating. So of course, we accuse the other of cheating (I don’t, but he has to be. He wins ALL the time!) The other night we played a whole two games before calling it a night and putting the play toys away.

Right now, I am playing against six opponents. Like I said, I am so addicted.

What are some of the things that you are addicted to?

saturday night surprise

February 13th, 2011

So, last night GW surprised me by taking me to the new Japanese Hibatchi House in town. It was the first time I’d ever experienced having a Japanese chef cook right in front of you and it rocked!

We sat at the U-shaped table between a family of four and a younger couple. A waitress took the food orders and brought out a soup that was clear with a few bean sprouts floating around and a salad of lettuce and cucumbers that had a special dressing on top. Both were very different and very tasty. The drinks were very cold which is just the way I like it and the soup hot, the salad cold and crisp.

The chef comes out and introduces himself and then starts the show. He was pretty funny and entertaining, but our table was kinda of dead and not interacting so we just watched and talked to each other.

Food was fabulous! Great flavor without leaving you so full you’re miserable. We had a $10.00 coupon off, but they don’t take it off the bill, they give it to you in a gift card. Very clever. Now we have to go back to spend the gift card.

But I don’t mind. At all. One of my favorite things is to eat with chopsticks. And be entertained.

Not necessarily in that order.

Thanks, Babe! Had a great time last night!

old man winter vs mother nature

February 9th, 2011

So, we made it through the holidays without a scratch and now deep into winter.

It’s been weird weather for North Texas the last two weeks. Better Than Spring Weather. Then Snow and Ice. Back to Better Than Spring Weather. Today it’s Snow and Ice again.

What with this? According to Candace Havens’ tweet this am, Old Man Winter may need a GPS to figure out where he’s supposed to be.

I plan on staying warm with a cup of peppermint tea while working on my YA in progress.

If I get my word count in, I’ll reward myself by reading some more on Beastly by Alex Flinn.

Stay warm!